"Breadcrumbs"

>> Friday, May 23, 2014

We try to make sense of our plight, when we have no control over a situation. When we try to make sense of what is happening to us. When we do not see a solution or our set goal in sight. When our goal for a job, a relationship, a project is taking too long to come to fruition; it is extremly frustrating. Usually in these cases you are waiting for other people to assist in setting the foundation, or play a part that is necessary for your vision to become a reality. Waiting, waiting and waiting will make you mad and drive you mad. The more steps the more you wait for the fruit of your labor. In the meantime you are loosing money or not earning money; stuck physically, mentally. emotionally and finacially. There are times you may just have a "break". Possibly mild possibley big, but tears are expected to fall from the difficulty of your situation, And how did it come to this anyway? It was not what you planned or expected. But here you are. Then there is the support of people in your life that can be no support at all or just worst, appear to have no faith in you and/or your vision.

Then just like that after months or even years, on a day you did not expect, because of course you had many days of expectation and nothing-it happens. You're still in disbelief after believing for soooo long. Once you have what you want, you realize the real work begins and this can be scary and exciting at the same time. All is now worth the "torture" you experienced leading up to this point. Now take a further look back at the picture. Peer even further into all the incidents which led up to your victory. Link all meetings, conversations, mistakes, unknown influence and unknown key persons. Think of the changes you had to make and tweaking of your plan and following leads. All are breadcrumbs left for you to follow and lead you to your goal. Led by something greater than yourself. You look back and realize how much stronger you are for the task, how much desire has been built up and harness to take you the distance. You realize there is no way I did this on my own and at times you were kicking and screaming, while somehow and unknowingly being "carried". Last of all, you have become wiser for the mission and for life in general. Next time you may follow the breadcrumbs by deliberately looking for them, making the process less stressful and far more exciting. This is maturity and you have entered its gates.....by breadcrumbs.  


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"Am I Wrong"-Nico & Vinz (Acoustic Style)

>> Wednesday, April 30, 2014



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8 things women don't do......

>> Friday, April 25, 2014

8 Things women just don't do anymore (that they should!)

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"Classic"-MKTO

>> Thursday, April 03, 2014


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Repost- Arguing in front of the kids.

>> Sunday, March 30, 2014

Article: Arguing in front of the kids.

I would like to repost as this was a good read and reminder. Written in 2012 and I still remember the lesson from that day.

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Divorced Man-Advice I wish I had.

>> Friday, March 28, 2014

This Guy Got Divorced And Said This About His Ex-Wife... And I Agree With Him.
Gerald Rogers got divorced after 16 years of marriage. Recently he wrote a eye-opening public confession on his blog... after I saw it, I'm totally with him. He writes:

''MARRIAGE ADVICE I WISH I WOULD HAVE HAD:

Obviously, I'm not a relationship expert. But there's something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different... After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here's the advice I wish I would have had...

1) NEVER STOP COURTING.
Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.

2) PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART.
Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.

3) FALL IN LOVE OVER and OVER and OVER again.
You will constantly change. You're not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don't take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.

4) ALWAYS SEE THE BEST in her.
Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can't help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.

5) IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER...
Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it's what you wanted or not.

It gets better to read the entire article click here.

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Niece's Wedding-Steve Harvey

>> Saturday, March 22, 2014

Too funny. His wife must have said why did I get involved? Warning a little raw near the end.


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